Sunday, September 15, 2013

Changing the World - ERC Week 3

- How did you change the world this week?
While I admire the concept of the different "worlds" that we live in, such as our community world, our national world, and our world on the grand scale, I don't believe that I change the world. When I look back on the events and occasions of the past week I do feel like I have changed several peoples look on the world. Within the past week I took it on myself to have a conversation with every single resident, with only a few questions on my mind. I felt that this was necessary due to the feeling that I lacked solid interactions with many of my residents. With the environment of myself being a mentor and leader, I feel that my questions resonated deeply with many of the residents. In specific there were a few residents who I felt were being "bullies"(in the non-physical sense). When I confronted one of them during our conversation he said that he "sees people as objects because it makes it easier to deal with problems". I found this to be terribly insensitive, and I challenged him to see others emotions and reactions. He then said that "if anyone ever found me to be a bully I would want them to tell me", to which I responded "consider this that conversation". Ever since that conversation I have noticed a change in his communication with others. He seems to have genuinely taken my words seriously. I had conversations with two others of a similar nature, which have both ended positively. It wasn't easy for me to have these conversations, but i feel that they will greatly improve my residents current lives, and even possibly their future.

1 comment:

  1. Ethan, it sounds like you had your OS!M and it went very well. Those conversations went well because you saw those people as people and not as objects. You care about them and your community and you took the time to have a discussion that many others probably would not have. You were strong enough and caring enough to have the discussion and it sounds like it went well. It is a better "world" for you, the people you talked with, and the community. Thanks for sharing.

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